Wedding Planner or DIY? How to Decide What’s Right for Your Big Day 

Why a wedding planner might be for you...

Planning a wedding is exciting, and some people have literally lived for this moment, and now it's their time to shine! But let’s be real for a moment, some of us are juggling a LOT and there just might not be the time to organise the wedding you've always dreamed of. For many, they may have never planned such a huge event before, which can make the prospect of planning your big day a little overwhelming. Between picking the perfect venue, juggling vendors, and making sure your great-aunt doesn’t sit next to your cousin she hasn’t spoken to in 10 years, there’s a lot to think about. That’s where a wedding planner can swoop in give you a helping hand!

A good wedding planner is like having a fairy godmother, except instead of turning pumpkins into carriages, they turn your Pinterest boards into reality (and keep you sane while doing it). Let’s talk about why hiring a wedding planner is could be one of the best decisions you can make for your big day.

1. They Take the Stress Off Your Shoulders

Weddings are magical, but planning one can feel like a full-time job. A wedding planner takes on the hard stuff, like dealing with contracts, organising timelines, and making sure your dream day actually happens the way you envision it (so that you can focus on the fun parts...like cake tasting!).

2. They Keep You on Budget

It’s easy for wedding costs to spiral a little (because of course you need that floral archway and champagne fountain, right?). A planner helps you set a realistic budget and stick to it, making sure you get the best value for your money. Plus, planners often have connections with vendors, which can sometimes mean better deals!

3. They Handle the Unexpected

A wedding planner is like your personal problem-solver. If something goes wrong (not saying it will, but you never know), they fix it before you even know about it.

Imagine your DJ gets stuck in traffic, your 6 year old niece knocked the cake over, or Uncle Steve is passed out in the loo...without a planner, that’s your problem. 

4. They Make Your Vision a Reality

You’ve spent months (or years!) dreaming about your wedding, and a planner helps bring those dreams to life. Whether you want a classic, elegant affair or a festival-style celebration with food trucks, they help create a day that’s totally you, and because they've been in the biz for a while, they know how to make it happen.

5. They Let You Actually Enjoy Your Wedding

Your wedding day should be fun, not spent worrying about logistics. A planner ensures everything runs smoothly so you can be fully present and soak in every special moment.

Now I'm not saying you need a wedding planner, but for some of us, hiring one for your Big Day, might just be the magic ingredient you need. 

Meet Laura...

Laura from Kept Weddings with Laura has worked in the wedding and event industry for over 12 years, giving her a wealth of experience, a fantastic knowledge of an incredible network of wedding vendors, and fantastic insight into what works, and perhaps just as importantly...what doesn't! 

Laura works closely with couples to make sure their budget is used wisely - so you won’t find yourself overspending on one thing and forgetting about another. 

She knows the ins and outs of making a wedding run smoothly and will not only make the lead-up to the wedding stress-free, but also oversees the day itself so that it runs as seamlessly as possible. So instead of panicking about last-minute hiccups, you can sip champagne and enjoy the magic unfold!

Laura is known for her stylish and personal approach to weddings, working with couples to design a day that truly reflects their personalities. Whether you have a clear vision or need help figuring out what you want, she’s got you covered. (She's also mega organised and ridiculously lovely so you'll be in safe hands!).

(Photo by Danielle Veitch)

Final Thoughts

So there is no right answer, as this is entirely a personal choice for you and your own circumstances, but if you’re on the fence about hiring a wedding planner, here’s your sign to say yes. Whether you need full-on planning or just someone to manage the big day, a wedding planner can be an investment in your sanity.

And if you’re looking for a planner in the UK, Laura from Kept Weddings is a fantastic choice. She’s got the experience, the connections, and the passion to make your wedding everything you want it to be, without the stress.

Check out her website here and see how she can help make your wedding dreams a reality!